The Value Factor

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by Jk Allen

The Value Factor calls for giving beyond expectations. This can include a thoughtful opinion generated from listening attentively or as simple as offering to help someone with a physical task. The Value Factor is a distinguished and deliberate approach in interacting with people. At its core, it’s an approach all about finding ways to serve others…an approach yielding positive gain for all parties.

This article is about being on the side of the solution; helping others while subsequently bettering your own position by creating a value enriched environment.

How I Discovered the Value Factor

The Preface…

My discovery of the Value Factor came to me in my first job after graduating from college in 2003. I entered the workforce with an abundance of confidence…confidence that quickly turned to a feeling of inadequacy – until I met the benefit of adding value.

Unsuspectingly, my education didn’t translate into useful intelligence. Discussions in meetings didn’t incorporate business concepts that I had recently learned…they were about actual business processes; requiring experience in the industry and more importantly, the company.

At this time, my approach to gain recognition was to sit back and wait for any and every chance I had to speak up…and I did just that. However, 99% of the time my opinions were glanced right over because my offerings were worthless to the subject at hand.

The Discovery…

During this time I was in the process of reading a number of self-help books, with the understanding that I had learning and growing to do. I vividly remember reading a section in How to Win Friends and Influence People and coming across the topic of listening. Listening to fully understand what’s going on, rather than listening to make the next witty comment – as I had been doing. After studying the art of listening, I immediately recognized that I had an opportunity to improve.

I mentally sketched my new approach → sit back, listen with the intent to learn and without interjecting my own skewed thoughts. I began practicing this in meetings and quickly started to pick up and understand the company’s processes; helping me form correlations between what I was learning on the job and concepts I had recently learned in college.

I committed to using this approach and found that it allowed me to identify areas where I could add value. Beyond listening attentively, I found that being mindful overall helped me identify situations where I could be of help to others. I wanted to be accommodating; to give value…and what happened in return was value was given back me. I received referrals for new and higher paying jobs, promotions and developed strong business relationships.

The Test Run…

It was at this point where I met the Value Factor. I learned that supplying value isn’t just a good deed, but it can put you in an advantageous position; a position deeming you as a valuable asset.

Everyone sees themselves as valuable (at least they should), but it’s another thing when others view you as valuable.

I went from listening with the intent of finding the perfect spot to jab in my 2 sense, to being a listener first, with the intention of adding value if I can find something of value to include. This means that if I don’t have something constructive to add, I don’t try to fake constructiveness. Sure, I’ll comment, agree or respectfully disagree, but I won’t just throw out ideas – just to throw out ideas. My purpose is to add value.

Putting it into practice…

My next job was in sales. It was a natural fit for me at this point because I had learned the art of interacting with people in a professional environment and the basics of sales. Loving to inject my own ‘hustle’ style into every formula, my sales approach was not to sale the physical product of service…it was to sale the value of the product or service. This made the classic “cost analysis process” much easier to overcome because the prospect’s focus wasn’t on the cost first, it was to the benefit of the product or service; the value.

How to Add Value

Today, being a value add is a part of who I am. I genuinely like being a part of the solution and helping others. So beyond the auto-generated benefits that come with the Value Factor, I receive satisfaction in knowing that I’ve helped someone or something.

The great thing is that there’s no wrong way to do it. Also, there are no negative effects as long as your intentions aren’t focused on the benefit of you. Share your knowledge and skills and reap the rewards from doing so.

There are so many ways to add value…here are a handful that I practice:

  • Listen. You don’t have to uncover something spectacular to add value. Simply listen and identify the void…if you can help fill the void – then do so. Even positive reinforcement is valuable.
  • Think before you speak. Speaking without thinking first can get you in trouble. Think about how you want to deliver your message and how it will be received.
  • Use simple words. Don’t water down your message with wording that confuses people. Get the ultimate effect by using the most simple words possible…so simple that your message can be easily remembered and recalled.
  • Find your niche. You’re an expert at something. Whatever that something is, make that skill available to others.
  • Know your audience. There may be times when you have something valuable to add, but doing so could offend someone in the process. Keep in mind that not everything you see as valuable will be interpreted in the same manner. Know what role you play.
  • (sometimes) Don’t say a word. Listening without responding can be a significant value add. There are times when people want to vent free from our advice or tips. A good ear and sealed lips are valuable…and rare.
  • Attitude. It’s easily sense when you’re attitude doesn’t match your intent. To truly give value; you must display value through your enthusiastic personality. If your attitude is negative, which is easily picked up by others, your overall contributions will have a negative effect. When you’re in the spell of a negative attitude, keep it isolated to keep from polluting others.
  • Be a humble servant. Serving others doesn’t mean you’re inferior. Jesus washed the feet of his disciples. Asking how you can be of help (or serve) shows that your intentions aren’t only angled towards your own benefit but for others as well.

Keep your approach pure; don’t focus on the benefits that come to you, for they’ll come naturally…focus on how you can be of value and promote value to others. What you’ll find is that the level of appreciation, respect and value that people have for you will increase tenfold. Who doesn’t want to be highly appreciated, respected and valued? These are a few of the benefits that come along with the Value Factor – seriously.

As you maneuver throughout your professional endeavors and personal life alike, be sure to add value at every chance that you can. Those who practice this can attest to the rewards that transcend from this behavior. If this all seems far-fetched, that may be because you haven’t consistently added value to others.

As you can see, at its core, the Value Factor is simply all about finding ways to serve others. An effect of adopting the Value Factor is that you become a valuable asset in the process.

Q: How do you add value and what benefits do receive from doing so? Do you find that you add value but get nothing in return?

{ 27 comments… read them below or add one }

Alex Blackwell October 30, 2010 at 12:13 pm

Great message today Jk, thanks!

I try to add value by giving and then not expecting anything in return. In other words, I give for the sake of giving and nothing else.

There’s no question I feel more valuable when I do this. I hope others find some value through my efforts, too.

Alex

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Jk Hustle October 30, 2010 at 4:17 pm

Hi Alex, I agree, it just feels better to take this approach…especially with no expectation of receiving anything back in return.

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Ocean Front October 30, 2010 at 2:42 pm

Sometimes I do see my adding of value as not getting return, but I realize that’s how investments work. Sometimes we invest and lose, sometimes we invest a little and get back far more than we deserve. Sometimes the value-added market, like the stock market, is a little dry and we have so much in, already expected and it’s not a time to remove it (that value-added element) and so we maintain the value that we’re adding even though we may not be receiving any return.

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Jk Hustle October 31, 2010 at 5:09 pm

Ocean Front-

Try this…instead of basing your good gestures on the “hopefull” stipulation of getting something back in return (investment)…simply add value with absolutely no expectation of receiving anything in return (charity). This, in my experience, is what yields me the best returns…The biggest being the satisfaction of being of value to someone or something…beyond that – who knows what can come…but I’m a believer in reaping what you sow. Thanks for the comment.

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Dia October 30, 2010 at 6:57 pm

Hi JK,

Very nice post my friend. In regards to the third step you mentioned “Use simple words,” this is so true, we should use language that is easily understood by most people, not just PHD holders. These tips are really excellent ways to add value, after all, our main purpose should be helping others and adding value to their lives. Thanks for sharing

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Jk Hustle October 31, 2010 at 5:14 pm

Hey Dia – I’m glad you liked it. Also, thanks for sharing your appreciation for using simple words. I know for me, simplicity is more impacting than what comes across as complex! Peace.

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Ocean Front November 1, 2010 at 5:46 pm

Well JK and Dia – I will say this. I’ve been following the wisdom I’ve received from JK Hustle for a good while now, and while I do hold a PhD along with a Masters degree from an Ivy League school, I am fully adamant and sincere that JK Hustle has brought me more wisdom and more professional guidance than anything or anyone I came across, read, or encountering in my 10 years in academia. JK got his PhD on the streets, in the classroom, now in the boardroom, and soon I predict in the global conference rooms.

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Jk Hustle November 1, 2010 at 6:38 pm

Ocean Front – I appreciate the props. We’ve known each other for a long time and I know your words are sincere. We’re only touching the surface so far – we have big things to come bro. Can’t wait for Hawaii!

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John Sherry October 31, 2010 at 3:19 pm

Jk this is pure genius. I love where you writing is going, it really is enlightening stuff pulling out pure gold from the ether of life to mould into deep teachings that make sense. Your list of how to add value is, without a word of a lie, one of the best I have ever come across. ‘Don’t say a word’ resonates with me at a cellular level but to round it all off with being a humble servant is masterly. I felt so uplifted by your post I have read and re-read it 5 times. The truth is IT HAS VALUE for everyone. My appreciation for wisdom truly shared backed up by an honest human story of how it came about.

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Jk Hustle October 31, 2010 at 5:21 pm

John, what can I say in return to such a comment. I appreciate your kind words. They are motivating for sure…and I grab a great deal of inspiration directly from your site. I’m constantly trying to step my game up and I’m glad that it’s noticeable. Thanks for the highly valuable comment!

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jonathanfigaro October 31, 2010 at 5:50 pm

It’s always better to listen then to speak. For god made us with 2 ears and one mouth. It’s best we use it proportionality. Keep on keeping on JK!

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Jk Hustle November 1, 2010 at 11:03 am

2:1 proportion (Listening:Speaking)! I never really thought of it like that – but it makes sense!

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Marcus Sheridan-The Sales Lion November 1, 2010 at 10:05 am

Hustle, first time on your site man and really enjoyed this article. Very impressed with your personal story here of learning to listen…and ultimately learning to give value as well. Like you, Carnegie’s How to Win Friends…. changed my life as well. That’s a classic that will never grow old.

Look forward to your future posts.

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Jk Hustle November 1, 2010 at 11:11 am

Marcus – I’ve seen your picture around…so I know we frequent some of the same sites. Thanks for stopping by and commenting – I appreciate the support.

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Frank November 3, 2010 at 1:54 pm

Jk,

You provided so much detail and practical advice that I don’t know what exactly to comment on. So, here is what I will do, I will throw in my random 2 cents and hope you get something out of it. :-)

Outside of your outstanding lists of ways to add value, one way that I try to add value is by becoming a connector. I have a talent of connecting people with influential people in their line of work and opening up a world of additional opportunities for them. The value is added by joining two people together who didn’t know each other to establish a relationship that is beneficial for both of them. It’s a win-win-win scenario. What do you think? Would that be part of the “value” factor?

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Jk Hustle November 3, 2010 at 5:12 pm

Frank – that’s a great example! I guess we can say that connecting people is your expertise (amongst other things) – and you give it way for the benefit of others. At some point, I bet you’ll be connected with someone that will bring much value to you…actually, I bet it’s happened already. Peace!

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Steven November 4, 2010 at 2:29 pm

Damn JK, your writing and advice is flawless in this one. You have good communication skills.

“I mentally sketched my new approach → sit back, listen with the intent to learn and without interjecting my own skewed thoughts. I began practicing this in meetings and quickly started to pick up and understand the company’s processes; helping me form correlations between what I was learning on the job and concepts I had recently learned in college.”

This is a key concept in any kind of learning. Just shut up your inner chatter and pay full attention to what is going on in front of you.

“Use simple words. Don’t water down your message with wording that confuses people. Get the ultimate effect by using the most simple words possible…so simple that your message can be easily remembered and recalled.”

I sometimes have this problem. I read a lot, so I have a big vocabulary, but using big words muddles my message (and makes me sound pompous).

“Be a humble servant. Serving others doesn’t mean you’re inferior. Jesus washed the feet of his disciples. Asking how you can be of help (or serve) shows that your intentions aren’t only angled towards your own benefit but for others as well.”

Love this. And it totally ties into your theme of over-delivering on value. What a way to build relationships!

Really, really good stuff. I’m impressed. Keep it up JK.

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Jk Hustle November 13, 2010 at 6:39 am

Hey Steven – I appreciate the encouraging words man. You keep up the good work on your side too!

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Angela Artemis November 4, 2010 at 4:15 pm

Jk,
What a fabulous post! I think you’re brilliant for figuring this out so early in life. It’s so true when we push the ego aside and focus on truly listening, supporting and being of value of to others – the Universe picks us up and carries us toward a more glorious life than we could have ever imagined!

Thank you so much for delivering such words of wisdom to us today. I really needed to reminded of this.

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Jk Hustle November 13, 2010 at 6:41 am

Angela – I’ve been one blessed person…what more can I say. So blessed, that I know I have soooo much more to learn! But I have had some fortunate situations in which I was able to obtain considerably valuable learnings, which continue to impact my life for the better.

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Andrea DeBell - britetalk November 5, 2010 at 9:13 pm

Hi JK! Beautiful concept the Value Factor! We can’t go wrong with giving. I love your last topic “Be a humble servant.” A wonderful way to introduce ourselves to others is to after we meet them to ask how we can be of service. It usullay catches people off guard but they get used to it.
Thanks for this gorgeous post. Loving blessings!

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Jk Hustle November 13, 2010 at 6:44 am

Andrea – I tell you, there are times when people don’t know how to read the sincerity of my approach to serve. Maybe because it’s uncommon for them to be approached in such a way, or they just don’t expect it from me. But as you said “they get used to it”, eventually!

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Sibyl - alternaview November 7, 2010 at 6:49 am

JK: Great post and great concept. I really like this idea of the value factor. I think it perfectly addresses the need to always focus on sincerely giving to other people what you can and when you do that, everything always falls into place. I thought that list of things you included in this post was great … super helpful. Thanks for passing it along.

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Jk Hustle November 13, 2010 at 6:46 am

Hello Sibyl – I’m glad that you found value in this! It’s funny, because some people see the Value Factor as a weakness….but not I!

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Tisha November 9, 2010 at 9:11 pm

These are truly words to live by JK! I believe I add value by saying something positive before I leave any situation, good or bad. I must admit, though, that I’m still working on the “Don’t say anything, sometimes” part!
You are spot on with every one of your points and I especially love the parts about recognizing that the best feeling comes from having others appreciate the value you bring to the table, and striving to always be of service.
Thank you for sharing these wonderful insights!

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Jk Hustle November 13, 2010 at 6:50 am

Hi Tisha – Thanks for stopping by HustlersNotebook. I tell you, it’s so unnatural to “not speak”, but it’s certainly powerful. I’m not the best at this one either, but I understand the its power, so I strive to become better at it. I look forward to seeing you back again!

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alex December 1, 2010 at 10:14 am

This is a great article. serving with value is a great approach!

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